Can Your Head & Your Heart Make Peace, be United?

What is it about our Hearts and our Minds that has caused so much conflict for so many years even centuries?

Why would we be playing a part of this Head - Heart conflict?

As crazy as it may seem, those listening and following ONLY their heads, believe that is the only way, simply because it feels safer - well that is the delusion that is perceived anyway.

Do you get my drift?

The insane thing is, that everyone is looking for 'love,' or at least 'love' as they currently perceive it, yet they have this incredible conflict going on between their head and their heart.

And, those listening to their hearts, complain of feeling too much, of picking up other peoples 'stuff.' Do you understand what I mean here? As a Mind/Heart Specialist Coach, I hear this all of the time. 

Lets face it, it is way too easy to play the 'blame game,' that is until we start to wake up, and realise that the only way through, is to take full responsibility for where we are and how we got there.

The truth is, we were never born to live in conflict were we? I mean, if that were the case, War would have created peace in the world by now, wouldn't it?

Lets face it, who, really wants to be living in constant conflict - you know, different parts of ourselves being at war with one another?

Surely there is more to life that that? 

Or, is it me who is delusional?

What needs t happen to create more balance and harmony between our hearts and our heads? Surely it must be some dark hidden secret available only to the select few.

As a human race, if we have still not got it together after so many centuries, we have to be asking, how can there be a solution, let alone a simple solution?

I mean, lets face it, something as simple as authentic communication could never possible be the answer, could it?

Have you ever had a broken heart? You know the kind, where you have felt that you would never get over a 'specific' situation? When you can not get 'that other person' out of your mind?
Maybe, even to the point of feeling that 'life is too freaking hard?'
It is at times like this that it is all too easy to get things out of perspective, the mind goes off on its tangent saying I will never let anyone else in again etc etc. Been there?

The reality is, that your Heart is one incredibly Powerful organ! You are alive, are you not you?

It is not your heart that is broken, it is other feelings and emotions that are acting out, playing and triggering old emotional wounds, that are taking control here.

Now you can choose to allow this to happen, or consciously step up, and take your power back, as you allow yourself to see the entire situation for what it really is. Now, this could be an incredible opportunity for your heart to open wider, and expand, or to freeze shut (there is no such thing really) and you become angry and bitter.

The truth is, we always have Free choice, though it may not seem to be true at the time. With the right guidance, support and awareness, it will be easier for you to see this more quickly that you otherwise would.

Now if I told you that your Heart has a brain, would you believe me?

Think about it for a moment. Do you sometimes make decisions which you know without a doubt that it has come from your head? And, are there other times when you know without a doubt, that your heart is guiding you?

Where does your inner knowing come from?

Your head? I don't think so.

Where does your intuition come from? 

Your head? I don't think so.

Where so your gut feelings come from?

Your head? I don't think so.

Your head and your heart are constantly communicating with one another.

We all, always have free choice about what goes into, and out of our heads/minds.
What I have learnt over the last quarter of a century of being in this field, is that we have much more free choice than most are even aware of.

We can master our thoughts, we can use our mind to help create the reality we consciously choose.
Yes, it does take perseverance, commitment, determination, and practice with a great strategy, but it is certainly very very do-able. And, way easier than most realise. Mind Mastery is an art well worth cultivating, more on that at a later date.

When we take full responsibility for living from our own hearts, we are very naturally stepping up into our truth, and saying YES to who we really are. Once we can begin to live more powerfully and authentically from our hearts, ego seems to take a back seat, allowing love, compassion, empathy and understanding to take a major part of our lives. We naturally embrace more ease and grace into our lives.

Our hearts and minds begin to unite, to communicate as one, for our greater good, and those around us.

We begin to ignite the liquid gold, the dance of heart and brain working together as a team, for the greater good of both.

What goes on within, goes on without. Now, we could look at the world as a whole, and see just how un-united it is. How many centuries has war consistently been a big part of politics, of control?

The insane thing here is, that war will never bring peace. Universal Law says, treat like with like to heal. 

So, that means treat love with love and you get more love. 

Treat love with conflict and you get .......?

My suggestion is, if it love you are choosing, then allow that to be your focus.

We have been conditioned to play other people stories for too long, and now it is time to decide what we really want as individuals.

 Love can rule, Love can guide, Love is the greatest healer, Love can be YOU.

So the question I leave you with today, is...

Are You Being Who You Really Are?

Are You Love?

Shivaya Reo

The Flow Coach For Entrepreneurs,

The Heart Mind Energy Specialist.

www.shivayareo.com