Saturday, January 31, 2015
Astrology Predictions 2015 - 2016 by Barbara Goldsmith
Another astrology prediction for the whole of 2015.
Barbara is more detailed in her approach.
Please let me know what you think?
Leo Full Moon and Mercury Direct
It's another Super Moon on the way, gentler than last months one ;)
Friday, January 30, 2015
Why Women leave Men they Love
What every Man needs to Know
As a marriage counsellor working with men and women in relationship crisis, I help clients navigate numerous marriage counselling issues. While many situations are complex, there’s one profoundly simple truth that men need to know. It’s this – Women leave men they love.
They feel terrible about it. It tears the heart out of them. But they do it. They rally their courage and their resources and they leave. Women leave men with whom they have children, homes and lives. Women leave for many reasons, but there’s one reason in particular that haunts me, one that I want men to understand:
Women leave because their man is not present. He’s working, golfing, gaming, watching TV, fishing… the list is long. These aren’t bad men. They’re good men. They’re good fathers. They support their family. They’re nice, likeable. But they take their wife for granted. They’re not present.
Women in my office tell me “Someone could come and sweep me off my feet, right out from under my husband.” Sometimes the realization scares them. Sometimes they cry.
Men – I’m not saying this is right or wrong. I’m telling you what I see. You can get as angry or hurt or indignant as you want. Your wife is not your property. She does not owe you her soul. You earn it. Day by day, moment to moment. You earn her first and foremost with your presence, your aliveness. She needs to feel it. She wants to talk to you about what matters to her and to feel you hearing her. Not nodding politely. Not placating. Definitely not playing devil’s advocate.
She wants you to feel her. She doesn’t want absent-minded groping or quick release sex. She wants to feel your passion. Can you feel your passion? Can you show her? Not just your passion for her or for sex; your passion for being alive. Do you have it? It’s the most attractive thing you possess. If you’ve lost it, why? Where did it go? Find out. Find it. If you never discovered it you are living on borrowed time.
If you think you’re present with your wife, try listening to her. Does your mind wander? Notice. When you look at her, how deeply do you see her? Look again, look deeper. Meet her gaze and keep it for longer than usual, longer than comfortable. If she asks what you’re doing, tell her. “I’m looking into you. I want to see you deeply. I’m curious about who you are. After all these years I still want to know who you are every day.” But only say it if you mean it, if you know it’s true.
Touch her with your full attention. Before you lay your hand on her, notice the sensation in your hand. Notice what happens the moment you make contact. What happens in your body? What do you feel? Notice the most subtle sensations and emotions. (This is sometimes called mindfulness.) Tell her about what you’re noticing, moment to moment.
But you’re busy. You don’t have time for this. How about five minutes? Five minutes each day. Will you commit to that? I’m not talking about extravagant dinners or nights out (although those are fine too). I’m talking about five minutes every day to be completely present to the woman you share your life with. To be completely open – hearing and seeing without judgement. Will you do that? I bet once you start, once you get a taste, you won’t want to stop.
<Note – As some readers have observed, the gender roles in this article can be reversed and the same will be true. Comments have now been closed. Watch for PART 2 to this post in the next week!
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Trying to grow, fix, or save your marriage? I provide counselling, coaching and mentoring to individuals and couples on the issues that make or break relationships. Sessions in-person or by telephone. Your initial consultation is free. www.JusticeSchanfarber.comWednesday, January 28, 2015
Gary Zukav: Words of Wisdom - Defining Authentic Power - Women For One
Do you want to create Authentic Power?
Tuesday, January 27, 2015
Think about this for a moment: Why would you ever choose to be with someone who is not excited to be with you?
Source Mark Manson
There’s a grey area in dating many people get hung up on — a grey area where feelings are ambiguous or one person has stronger feelings than the other. This grey area causes real, tangible issues. As a man, a huge question is often whether to be persistent and continue pursuing a woman even when she seems lukewarm or hot/cold on your advances. For women, a common question is what to do with men who make their feelings ambiguous.
Source Mark Manson
There’s a grey area in dating many people get hung up on — a grey area where feelings are ambiguous or one person has stronger feelings than the other. This grey area causes real, tangible issues. As a man, a huge question is often whether to be persistent and continue pursuing a woman even when she seems lukewarm or hot/cold on your advances. For women, a common question is what to do with men who make their feelings ambiguous.
“She said she’s not interested, but she still flirts with me, so what do I need to do to get her?”
“Well, I know she likes me, but she didn’t call me back last weekend, what should I do?”
“He treats me well when he’s around, but he’s hardly around. What does that mean?”
“Well, I know she likes me, but she didn’t call me back last weekend, what should I do?”
“He treats me well when he’s around, but he’s hardly around. What does that mean?”
Most dating advice exists to “solve” this grey area for people. Say this line. Text her this. Call him this many times. Wear that.
Much of it gets exceedingly analytical, to the point where some men and women actually spend more time analyzing behaviors than actually, you know, behaving.
Frustration with this grey area also drives many people to unnecessary manipulation, drama and game-playing. This is where you get rules about making men pay for this many dates before you can become intimate. Or how men need to transition from attraction phase to comfort phase by qualifying three times before they’re allowed to commence an escalation ladder.
These things may seem clever and exciting to some people who are stuck or frustrated. But this dating advice misses the point. If you’re in the grey area to begin with, you’ve already lost.
Let me ask again: Why would you ever be excited to be with someone who is not excited to be with you? If they’re not happy with you now, what makes you think they’ll be happy to be with you later? Why do you make an effort to convince someone to date you when they make no effort to convince you?
What does that say about you? That you believe you need to convince people to be with you?
You wouldn’t buy a dog that bites you all the time. And you wouldn’t be friends with someone who regularly ditches you. You wouldn’t work a job that doesn’t pay you. Then why the hell are you trying to make a girlfriend out of a woman who doesn’t want to date you? Where’s your self-respect?
The entrepreneur Derek Sivers once wrote a blog post where he said, “If I’m not saying ‘Hell Yeah!’ to something, then I say no.” It served him well in the business world and now I’d like to apply it to the dating world. And because I’m more of a vulgar asshole than Derek is, I’ll christen mine The Law of “Fuck Yes or No.”
The Law of “Fuck Yes or No” states that when you want to get involved with someone new, in whatever capacity, they must inspire you to say “Fuck Yes” in order for you to proceed with them.
The Law of “Fuck Yes or No” also states that when you want to get involved with someone new, in whatever capacity, THEY must respond with a “Fuck Yes” in order for you to proceed with them.
As you can see, The Law of “Fuck Yes or No” implies that both parties must be enthusiastic about the prospect of one another’s company. Why? Because attractive, non-needy, high self-worth people don’t have time for people who they are not excited to be with and who are not excited to be with them.
This may sound a bit idealistic to some. But The Law of “Fuck Yes or No” has many tangible benefits on your dating life:
- No longer be strung along by people who aren’t that into you. End all of the headaches. End the wishing and hoping. End the disappoint and anger that inevitably follows. Start practicing self-respect. Become the rejector, not the rejected.
- No longer pursue people you are so-so on for ego purposes. We’ve all been there. We were so-so about somebody, but we went along with it because nothing better was around. And we all have a few we’d like to take back. No more.
- Consent issues are instantly resolved. If someone is playing games with you, playing hard to get, or pressuring you into doing something you’re unsure about, your answer is now easy. Or as I often like to say in regards to dating, “If you have to ask, then that’s your answer.”
- Establish strong personal boundaries and enforce them. Maintaining strong boundaries not only makes one more confident and attractive, but also helps to preserve one’s sanity in the long-run.
- Always know where you stand with the other person. Since you’re now freeing up so much time and energy from people you’re not that into, and people who are not that into you, you now find yourself perpetually in interactions where people’s intentions are clear and enthusiastic. Sweet!
The Law of “Fuck Yes or No” is applicable to dating, sex, relationships, even friendships. You may have absolutely nothing in common with that bartender. But they’re hot and are interested in getting down. Is it a “Fuck Yes!” for sex? It is? Then game on.
Wrapped up in that sweet guy who treats you so well, except goes weeks without calling you and suddenly disappears after a couple drinks and a round of the horizontal polka? Been wondering if he really likes you? Do his excuses of being so busy all the time seem legit? It doesn’t sound like the answer is a “Fuck yes.” Then it’s time to move on.
Making out with a girl at your house and every time you go to take her shirt off she swats your hands away? That is not a “Fuck Yes,” my friend, therefore, it’s a no and you shouldn’t pressure her. The best sex is “Fuck Yes” sex — i.e., both people are shouting “Fuck Yes” as they hop between the sheets together. If she’s not hopping, then there’s no fucking.
(Hint Fellas: This is a great time to ask the girl why she’s not comfortable, and what she’s looking for from you. That, by itself — you know, treating her like a human and empathizing with her — often solves this “problem.”)
Want to date that woman you met last weekend but she keeps ignoring your texts and calls? Not sure what to say or do, especially since she seemed so happy to go out with you when you initially met her? Well, my friend, this is obviously not a “Fuck Yes.” Therefore, it is a “No.” Delete her number and move on.
Fuck Yes or No applies to relationships as well. My girlfriend works with a guy who got married because “it seemed like the right thing to do.” Four years later, he was cheating on his wife every chance he got. The marriage was not a Fuck Yes for him, therefore it should have been a No.
Sometimes The Law of Fuck Yes or No will apply differently on different levels. You may be a “Fuck Yes” for friendship with someone, but mildly excited to have sex with them. Therefore, it’s a no. You may be a “Fuck Yes” on banging someone’s brains out, but a definite “No” on actually spending any time with them. Apply the law to your decision-making as it suits your current needs.
Fuck Yes or No doesn’t necessarily mean you have to be falling in knee-wobbling love at first sight. It doesn’t even mean you have be completely convinced that someone is right for you. You can be “Fuck Yes” about getting to know someone better. You can be “Fuck Yes” about seeing someone again because you think there’s something there. You can be “Fuck Yes” about giving things a few months to pan out and see if you can fix the problems in the relationship.
The point is: both you and the other person need to be fuck yes about something, otherwise you’re just wasting your time.
But the real beauty of The Law of “Fuck Yes or No” is that it simplifies the problems you can have in your dating life. When applying the Law of “Fuck Yes or No,” there are really only two problems one can have.
The first problem is people who never feel a “Fuck Yes” for anybody they meet. If you are lukewarm on absolutely everyone you meet, then either your demographics are way off, or you suffer from a lack of vulnerability and are protecting yourself by remaining indifferent and unenthused by all of those around you.
Remember, it’s your job to look for something cool in everyone you meet; it’s not their job to show you. This is life, not a fucking sales convention. Learning to appreciate people you meet is a skill you cultivate. So get on it. This doesn’t mean you have to fall in love with everyone who breathes in your direction. It just means you need to take responsibility for your ability to connect with the people you are meeting.
The second problem is people who never meet others who feel a “Fuck Yes” for them. If all of the people you pursue give you a mild responses, or outright rejections, then it’s time to focus on improving yourself. Ask yourself, what is it about yourself that would inspire others to say “Fuck Yes” about you? If the answer is not obvious, then you get to work. Build yourself into a person others would say “Fuck Yes” to.
And this is the ultimate dating advice lesson — man, woman, gay, straight, trans, furry, whatever — the only real dating advice is self improvement. Everything else is a distraction, a futile battle in the grey area, a prolonged ego trip. Because, yes, with the right tools and performance, you may be able to con somebody into sleeping with you, dating you, even marrying you. But you will have won the battle by sacrificing the war, the war of long-term happiness.
Monday, January 26, 2015
Friday, January 23, 2015
What Is Authentic Power? | Super Soul Sunday | Oprah Winfrey Network
What do you do to get into your sweet spot?
Tuesday, January 20, 2015
Saturday, January 17, 2015
The Simple Message That Brought This Middle School Class to Tears
What do you do, to show your gratitude to your loved ones?
Friday, January 16, 2015
YOUR SELF MASTERY GOALS from
Tuesday 20th January
2015 at 21.15 WESTERN AUSTRALIA TIME
You, are Your Own, Manifestor.
What are you creating?
Your Wish is Your Command
Scroll to bottom of page for
instructions
Time Converter: http://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html
To Set the Wheels of Your Goals
into Action, start here;
Inventive
solutions Seeing future
Humanitarian attitudes Friends
Revelations Humour
Avoiding excessive detachment (space cadetting)
Choose up to 10 of the following, or
similar wishes of your choice;
In choosing, be sure that you truly
desire the outcome you are wishing, and be open as the opportunities appear
from there on, as they will, won’t they?
Trust and Receive
FLOW GOALS for INVENTIONS, INCLUDING: Innovative ideas,
Brilliance, Eccentricity, Understanding how things work:
I am receiving
brilliant, inventive solutions are coming to me regarding the situation of ______.
I am now totally open
to seeing life from a nonconventional point of view.
I am easily and
gratefully seeing new successful solutions to the problem of ____.
I am consistently
giving myself, and others plenty of room to be eccentric and unique as beautiful
loving individuals.
I am consistently
embracing my uniqueness with love joy and courage.
I am flowing with an
abundance of inspiring new ideas for my dream of ____.
I now confidently
understand how ____ works in a way that has brought me an innovative solution.
FLOW GOALS for THE FUTURE, INCLUDING: New trends and
unconventional approaches, High technology, Long-range goals, Following your
heart’s desire:
I am openly aware of
the beginning of new trends, and I am cooperating with them in a way that is in
my very best interests.
I am consistently and easily
finding myself filled with the courage to revolutionize my own beautiful life!
I am now gratefully
finding myself courageously and successfully following and living my dream of
____.
I am confidently
continuing to apply successful changes in technology to my personal life.
I have easily and
naturally found myself taking the first step toward making my dream of ____
come true.
I have clarity and
certainly in seeing my long-range goals, which are giving me more meaning and
purpose to my life.
FLOW GOALS for HUMANITARIANISM, Seeking
outcomes that are good for everyone involved, Identification with humankind,
Interest in others, Operating from a larger worldview:
I am naturally and
gratefully finding myself supporting outcomes that are good for others, as well
as for myself.
I am now seen as a
significant part of our community.
I now have total
clarity and confidence regarding the best ways I can participate with others to
create successful win-win outcomes. We are all winners!
I am embracing my
feelings of a strong sense of comfortable equality with others. I am having fun
finding myself actively involved in furthering the cause of ____ at least ____
hours each ____ (week/month.)
I am now easily and
authentically interested in others.
I am consistently
enjoying myself responding to others, with warmth and friendliness
I am naturally and
gratefully becoming more consciously aware of the larger picture of what is
happening in the area of ____.
FLOW GOALS for REVELATIONS, INCLUDING: Excitement, Unexpected
results, Surprises, Revitalizing experiences, Freedom:
I am now greeting unexpected events as positive
opportunities for growing and evolving.I am courageously invoking new revitalizing
experiences into my life.New revolutions are showing me the right path for
me in the matter of ____ .With all change and growth, I now easily see the
hidden opportunities that are allowing me to benefit.I am now confidently and easily finding myself making
the changes that are creating a greater feeling of freedom in my relationship
with ____.I am naturally enjoying finding myself embracing
happy surprises into my daily life.I am easily finding myself open and attracting
exciting, revitalizing experiences.
FLOW GOALS for THE BIG PICTURE, INCLUDING: Objectivity, Seeking
knowledge, Tools of divination (Astrology, Numerology, Tarot, I Ching, etc.),
Humour, Manifesting dreams:
I am openly seeing
life in a way that is engaging and sparking my sense of humour.
I am openly aware of –
and acting on – good timing.
I am positively objective
in my perceptions regarding ____.
I am enjoying gaining
the knowledge that is empowering me to manifest my dream of ____.
I am naturally and easily
attracting and enrolling in the right ____ (Tarot, I Ching, Astrology, etc.)
class that is opening me to the knowledge I am seeking.
I am naturally and easily
finding that I am realigning my thinking in cooperation with my destiny.
I am receiving the
perfect insights that are leading to my dream of ____ coming true.
I am naturally and easily
maintaining my energy in difficult situations, and being more objective.
FLOW GOALS for FRIENDSHIP INCLUDING: Friends, Groups,
Networking, Open, friendly approaches, Forthrightness, Giving and receiving
platonic love:
I am naturally and
easily making choices that are in my highest interests in promoting healthy
friendships.
I have re-established
support and friendship in my relationship with ____ .
I am now being
powerfully honest and direct about where I stand in my friendships, being true
to myself and walking my talk.
I am humbly and graciously
accepting help, love, and support from others.
I am filled with
happy, healthy self-confidence in welcoming wonderful new people into my life.
I am attracting and
beginning lots of happy, healthy new relationships.
I am naturally, easily
and confidently feeling comfortable and self-confident in group situations,
relating to others with helpfulness.
I am enjoying networking
with my peers, successfully co-operating for the fulfillment of commonly held
goals.
My natural instinctive
response to others is one of friendliness, encouragement, love and support.
FLOW GOALS for EXCESSIVE DETACHMENT, INCLUDING: Cold aloofness,
Fear of involvement, Erratic or shocking behavior, Inflexible opinions:
I am confidently and
openly stepping up, and easily being welcomed and included.
I am courageously
becoming involved with what I love, and easily embracing more intimacy in my
life.
I am easily finding myself
being very open and present, fully in the Now, in my Presence.
I am naturally and
lovingly being supportive, encouraging, and in my divine flow.
I am nurturing, loving,
compassionate, and honouring of others.
I am flexible and open
to others perceptions.
I am easily finding
myself openly considering alternative points of view for my highest good.
FLOW GOALS for RESTORING HEALTH, AQUARIUS RULES: Ankles and calves,
Circulation, Cramps and Spasms, Varicose veins:
A total healing has
occurred in the area of my ____ (above body area).
I have attracted, recognized
and am beginning to work with the right healers for me, which is restoring my
____ (above body area) to perfect health.
I have attracted the
right information for me, which is leading to a total healing of my tendency to
____ (above body area).
I am now easily and
naturally finding myself taking the right action that is leading to my
successfully restoring my ____ (above body area) to perfect health and beauty.
RULES FOR YOUR ULTIMATE RESULTS;
·
1. Always write your New Moon Wishes by hand
within 8 hours of the time specified above time (i.e. time as above.) Wishes
can be made up to 48 hours, though for best results do within the 8hr period.
·
2. Choose and write up to 10 wishes, date and
keep your list. You may choose several on the same topic.
·
3. Do Not make wishes for other people; you
can make them for shifting your approach to others.
What does that mean? Well, it means that from
the time above, any goals or focus you put on the topics above is being
supported by the greater universal cycles. You have heard of planting or
fishing by the moon haven’t you? Well it is just like that.
To greatly improve your chances of achieving
your goals, please follow the instructions above. Be sure that what you choose
is what is really important to YOU – oh, and have fun.
Until next month, wishing you a magical month,
With Love, Blessings and gratitude,
Shivaya Reo
www.shivayareo.com
www.thepowersofyourlove.blogspot.com.au
Aquarius SuperMoon and Mercury Retrograde
Are you ready for your New Moon goals?
Look out in the next couple of days for your Goal list.
Thursday, January 15, 2015
His Holiness the Dalai Lama Meets Russell Brand
What do you think of this interview with the Dalai Lama and Russell Brand?
Wednesday, January 14, 2015
F--- YOU -- how to stop screwing yourself over | Mel Robbins | TEDxSF
Are you 'fine' or are you being honest?
Sunday, January 11, 2015
How to know your life purpose in 5 minutes | Adam Leipzig | TEDxMalibu
What is your life purpose?
Or, what would you like it to be?
The most important lesson from 83,000 brain scans | Daniel Amen | TEDxOr...
I am fascinated with the brain, changing peoples thinking and the heart. Check out the damage from dementia, epilepsy, drugs, and many other dis-eases.
Let me know what you think?
Saturday, January 10, 2015
Tony's Message for the Guys ( But Ladies, You'll Appreciate This!)
A message for the Men (I am sure some of the women will be watching this too :)
What do you think about this?
Friday, January 9, 2015
Wednesday, January 7, 2015
The Life We Miss Out On - Motivational Video
What are you doing with your life?
Do You Know... that there is More ?
Celebrities & The Law Of Attraction: Rick Ross, LMFAO, Big Sean, Will Sm...
Are you practicing this process?
Tuesday, January 6, 2015
Dr. Gabor Mate on how addiction changes the brain - full sho
You can heal and change the damage done, with effective brain rewiring, just like you can change your DNA. In doing so, will help you to relax, let go and move back into your heart.
Do you or any of your family suffer from addictions?
Monday, January 5, 2015
Heart Opening 30min Yoga class
Using specific Yoga stretches to help open your Heart.
Let me know how you go?
Dr. Norman Doidge ,"The Brain That Changes Itself" full show
Did you know that you could change your brain?
Sunday, January 4, 2015
Saturday, January 3, 2015
REAL PROOF of psychic energy (Amazing footage)!!! - TV documentary
The powers of your psychic energy
Thursday, January 1, 2015
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